AA Meetings Southold, NY

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There are 6 AA meetings in Southold, NY across 5 locations and 3 days a week. Alcoholics Anonymous meetings are free and confidential, and open to anyone with a desire to stop drinking. Use the schedule below to find local and online AA meetings in Southold by day, time, and format, with directions to each.

Across Southold, Saturday is the busiest day for AA meetings, and morning (5 AM–12 PM) sessions are the most common. About 17% of groups (1) offer an online or hybrid option, while in-person groups meet across 5 venues in and around the city.

Common formats include Closed, Discussion, and Literature meetings. If nothing nearby fits your schedule, New Haven (32 mi) and Wallingford (35 mi) also have listed meetings within driving range.

AA Meetings in Southold, NY

Mondays7:00AM - 8:00AM
St. Mary's Episcopal Church
26 Saint Mary's Road, Shelter Island, New York
Meeting Types & Format:
Daily ReflectionsClosedEnglish
Meeting Notes:

HYBRID MEETING (live and online portions held simultaneously as one meeting) To join by phone dial: (978) 990-5000 Dial-in Meeting ID: 891 721#

Mondays7:30AM - 8:30AM
Online
Sag Harbor, New York
Meeting Types & Format:
Living SoberNewcomerClosedEnglish
Meeting Notes:

Zoom Meeting ID: 941 9359 1147 Zoom Passcode: sssh1994 To join by phone dial: (929) 205-6099 Dial-in Meeting ID: 941 9359 1147# Dial-in Passcode: 80642895#

Mondays9:00AM - 10:00AM
Online
23045 Main Road, Orient, New York
Meeting Types & Format:
Step StudyWheelchair AccessClosedEnglish
Meeting Notes:

*T first Mon HYBRID MEETING (live and online portions held simultaneously as one meeting) Zoom Meeting ID: 876 3276 9589 Zoom Passcode: Orient631

Mondays1:00PM - 2:00PM
Online
Wainscott, New York
Meeting Types & Format:
Step StudyClosedEnglish
Meeting Notes:

*T 1st Mon, O Anniv last Mon Zoom Meeting ID: 870 0165 7211 To join by phone dial: (646) 931 3860 Dial-in Meeting ID: 870 0165 7211#

Mondays1:00PM - 2:00PM
Maritime Park - Shinnecock Canal
6 Newtown Road, Hampton Bays, New York
Meeting Types & Format:
Step StudyClosedEnglish
Meeting Notes:

(Nov-Mar meets @ 12pm at Villa St. Agnes - 79 Foster Avenue)

Mondays6:00PM - 7:00PM
St. John's Episcopal Church
100 South Main Street, Southampton, New York
Meeting Types & Format:
ClosedNewcomerEnglish
Meeting Notes:

*O (Open meeting) Anniv last Mon

Mondays7:30PM - 8:30PM
Online
Shelter Island, New York
Meeting Types & Format:
OpenDiscussionEnglish
Meeting Notes:

Zoom Meeting ID: 852 3047 0449 Zoom Passcode: AAworks To join by phone dial: (646) 558 8656 Dial-in Meeting ID: 852 3047 0449#

Tuesdays7:00AM - 8:00AM
St. Mary's Episcopal Church
26 Saint Mary's Road, Shelter Island, New York
Meeting Types & Format:
GrapevineClosedEnglish
Meeting Notes:

HYBRID MEETING (live and online portions held simultaneously as one meeting) To join by phone dial: (978) 990-5000 Dial-in Meeting ID: 891 721#

Meeting Times in Southold Near You

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Finding AA Meetings in Southold, NY

This directory lists 6 AA meetings across 5 locations in Southold, New York, spanning a range of days, times, and formats so you can find one that fits your schedule.

Whether it's your first meeting or your hundredth, Southold's AA community makes room for everyone.

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Other Resources

AA is peer support. Some people also work with:

  • • Professional addiction counselors and therapists
  • • Medical providers (especially important for alcohol withdrawal, which can be dangerous without supervision)
  • • Al-Anon, for family members affected by someone else's drinking
  • • Other recovery programs alongside or instead of AA
  • • Sober living homes in the Southold area

For official AA information, visit aa.org.

Recovery Support in Southold, NY Beyond Meetings

This directory lists 6 AA meetings in Southold, NY at 5 venues. One of them meets online. AA meetings are free and Alcoholics Anonymous is self supporting, so there is no fee, no insurance check, and no intake form. AA is not treatment and does not provide detox, medical care, or housing. Those are separate services, and knowing which is which is the difference between getting the right help and getting none.

What kinds of alcohol support are there in New York?

Five things are commonly confused with each other. They differ in who supervises them, whether you live there, and how they are paid for.

Alcohol support options in New York compared by what they are, medical supervision, and how they are paid for
OptionWhat it isMedically supervisedHow it is paid for
AA meetingsFree peer support groups, in person and onlineNoFree, self supporting through member contributions
DetoxShort term medically supervised detox while alcohol leaves the bodyYesHealth service or paid, depending on the provider
Residential treatmentInpatient or residential treatment, living on site for a set periodYesHealth service, insurance, or self funded
Outpatient treatmentOutpatient and intensive outpatient programmes, structured sessions while living at homeUsuallyHealth service, insurance, or self funded
Sober livingSober living homes and recovery residences, shared abstinent housing with house rulesNoUsually rent paid by the resident

Is it safe to stop drinking without medical help?

Not always, and this is the one thing on this page worth reading twice. Stopping suddenly after heavy daily drinking can cause withdrawal that ranges from uncomfortable to genuinely dangerous, which is why medically supervised detox exists as a service distinct from counselling or rehab. If you drink heavily every day, the safe order is to speak to a doctor or a withdrawal service first, then use meetings to hold the ground you gain. This is the published position of SAMHSA, not advice from this directory.

What is a sober living home and who is it for?

Sober living homes and recovery residences are shared homes where everyone living there is staying sober, usually with house rules, curfews, and required meeting attendance. It is housing, not treatment, and not medical care. People commonly move in after residential treatment, or when going home would mean returning to the circumstances the drinking grew in. Residents in New York typically attend local AA meetings as part of the house agreement, which is where a schedule like the one on this page stops being abstract.

Where can I get free and confidential help now?

If you would rather speak to somebody today than read further, these are free, confidential, and not run by this site:

Service details verified against SAMHSA on . The AA Directory lists meetings. It does not run, recommend, rank, or take payment from any treatment provider, sober living home operator, or detox service, and it has no affiliation with the groups whose meetings it lists. Anything described above that is not an AA meeting is here so you know it exists, not because it is being suggested to you.

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AA Meetings in Suffolk County, New York

Southold is located in Suffolk County, part of the broader New York AA network. This directory covers AA meetings throughout Suffolk County, with times, locations, formats, and accessibility details for each.

Find AA Meetings by County in New York

Suffolk County has a wide range of AA meetings: open and closed formats, speaker meetings, step studies, and groups for specific demographics. Morning, evening, and weekend slots are available throughout the county.

Recovery Support Resources in Suffolk County

  • Meeting formats: 6+ AA meetings across Suffolk County, covering open, closed, speaker, step study, and specialized groups
  • Locations: Meetings throughout Southold and surrounding communities in the county
  • Times: Morning, afternoon, evening, and late-night slots across the county schedule
  • Specialized groups: LGBTQ+ friendly meetings, women's meetings, men's meetings, young people, seniors, and multilingual options
  • Accessibility filters: Wheelchair access, sign language interpretation, and other accommodation needs

Meetings Beyond City Limits

Many people in Southold attend meetings in neighboring communities within Suffolk County simply because a particular group suits them better. County-level intergroups and central offices also coordinate schedules, run 24-hour phone lines, and connect people with local AA resources.

More meetings nearby: Use the filters above to search by day, time, format, and type. You can also browse the New York AA meetings directory to find groups in other cities throughout Suffolk County and across the state.

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